Nowadays, my relationship problem has started to arise. I don’t know why. But seems that there’s something happened between me and my boyfriend lately. The problem distracts me a lot. It turns my sunny day into a sad, gloomy day. Before, we seem to live like any other couples. He’s the one that I can share stories, and the only one who’s always showers me with love and affection. But suddenly a problem came out of nowhere. It’s like a thunder strikes in the middle of the lovely cool rainy days. I did tell this matter to one of my best friends. But she seems not able to offer any best solutions to get rid of this problem. Oh, no wonder as she still single and available and got no experience when it comes to relationship. Okay, so now I did learn about the D.A.I.D techniques to solve problem. It’s quite systematic way of solving problem. Hope it helps me to overcome the problem.
After utilizing D.A.I.D techniques, I managed to determine the main problem. Well, I guess it’s all about being so sensitive and less effective communication between us that leads to misunderstood. Moreover, we’re busy enough to spend time with each other. So I came up with reliable solutions to overcome the problem. Maybe I just need to divide my activities wisely and my boyfriend also got to do the same thing to give us space for spending time together. In addition, we also have to be less sensitive if any one of us busy and couldn’t call or message during the week. We need to understand each other’s busy schedule and commitment as a student.
The end
Siti Fadzilah Mohd Isa
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